【新戲影評】《玩轉腦朋友》— 誠實面對你的不快樂

阿樂、阿愁、阿驚、阿憎和阿燥是今次電影的主角。他們是小女孩韋莉的「腦朋友」,主宰韋莉的情緒和反應。透過五位主角,電影教會我們兩件事……

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筆者:喃語

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悲傷其實比快樂重要

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從韋莉第一眼面對世界,阿樂就存在於她的腦海裏,而且確信,保持快樂是對韋莉最好的。所以阿樂有點排擠阿愁,怕阿愁破壞韋莉的美好回憶,因為她認為這些負面情緒都是黑暗面,對韋莉不好。然而,這才搞砸了事情。

阿樂忽略了阿愁的必要性,其實悲傷,遠比她想像中重要。

搬家之後,韋莉一直都不快樂。只是,阿樂遮掩了她的不快樂。儘管阿樂讓韋莉扮演家人的開心果,可是不快樂,一直埋在她內心心底。後來,更導致韋莉沒有向家人坦露情緒,沒有處理問題,使她崩潰,一下子爆發便離家出走。

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很多時候,我們會抑壓自己的傷心,怕暴露於人前,會讓人看笑話。看見別人哭泣,我們不知所措,只會一味說:「唔好喊啦,唔好唔開心啦。」其實,我們更需要的是,好好審視內心,接納自己的不快樂,才能解決情緒問題。

哭泣,並不代表懦弱。反而,是勇敢的表現。

 

家庭最能影響人的成長

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《玩轉腦朋友》告訴我們,形成一個人的性格,是全靠不同「性格小島」的運作。

因此,每個人都是獨一無二,無可替代的。然而,建立或是破壞小島的元素,大部分都是因為家庭給我們的經驗。

韋莉的「傻瓜島」,是由和爸爸扮「馬騮」而成的;還有「冰球島」,理所當然,是和家人一起玩冰球的初體驗而來。到了後來,讓韋莉的「誠實島」崩壞,則是因為她偷了媽媽的信用卡……

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和家人一起面對過的一切,都是組成一個孩子的性格之重要關鍵。如何去面對自己,面對世界,這些,都是依賴家庭灌輸給我們的。

香港人渴望讓孩子贏在起跑線,以為給予孩子所有最好的,就是為他們好。替孩子安排星期一的英文補習班,星期二的小提琴班,星期三的游泳班,星期四的芭蕾舞班……這樣下來,孩子的小島都會是怎麼樣呢?「補習班島」?「壓力島」?「虛榮島」?還是「逃避島」?

若你此刻覺得一切都不如意,甚至到了最差的時候,請確信,一切都會好起來。

你的小島,會重新建立起來的。

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